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By: Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C, Therapist & Founder of The Eating Disorder Center  Fear of weight gain is one of the most common and distressing challenges in eating disorder recovery. Many people wonder whether this fear ever goes away, how to cope with weight gain anxiety, or whether recovery is possible in a world that continues to stigmatize larger bodies. From a Health at Every Size (HAES) aligned perspective, fear of weight gain is not a sign that recovery is wrong. It is a learned response shaped by diet culture, weight stigma, and very real experiences of being judged or mistreated based on body size. At the same time, you deserve to live a full, meaningful life that is not centered on shrinking your body. Why Fear of Weight Gain Is So Common in Eating Disorder Recovery Diet culture teaches that thinness equals health, discipline, and worth (which is totally false). For people in larger bodies, these messages are often reinforced through real-world experiences of discrimination in healthcare, workplaces, and social spaces. Weight stigma is real, harmful, and deeply ingrained. For many individuals, trying to shrink their bodies becomes a way to ‘protect’ themselves from stigma, rejection, fear of loss of control, etc. When recovery involves eating more consistently and letting one’s body get to its natural set point weight range, the brain may interpret this as a threat. This is not a personal failure, it is a nervous system responding to a culture based around the thin-ideal standard of beauty, as well as for some a perceived ‘loss of control.’ It’s important not to deny that weight stigma exists, as it does for folks in larger bodies. Thus, it is crucial that we acknowledge this. Rather than denying the reality of weight stigma, recovery asks a different question: “Is spending your life trying to shrink your body taking you away from your true values and fully engaging in your life?” Additionally, it can be helpful to pause during moments of intense body fear and gently ask: “Is this really about my body, or is something else feeling overwhelming right now?” Stress, grief, trauma, loneliness, or fear of rejection often get expressed through body dissatisfaction because it feels more concrete and familiar. Coping With Fear of Weight Gain Using DBT Skills Fear of weight gain often triggers urges to restrict, skip meals, body check, or seek reassurance. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills help you get through these moments without letting fear dictate your behavior. Distress tolerance skills can help when fear spikes around food, clothing, or body sensations. Grounding techniques such as paced breathing, temperature changes, or sensory input can stabilize the nervous system long enough to get through a meal or resist a behavior. The goal is not to eliminate fear, but to continue living your life even when fear is present. Emotion regulation skills also play an important role. Naming fear as fear, rather than truth, can reduce its intensity. Over time, many people find that as eating becomes consistent, fear loses its urgency. Life begins to take up more space than body size. Using ERP to Reduce Weight Gain Fear Over Time Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is a powerful tool for reducing fear of weight gain by addressing avoidance and safety behaviors that keep anxiety stuck. Avoidance may include restricting food, avoiding certain clothes, checking the mirror repeatedly, or seeking reassurance about weight. While these behaviors may reduce anxiety in the short term, they often shrink life over time. ERP involves gradually facing feared situations while resisting the urge to compensate or control. This might include eating feared foods, wearing less “safe” clothing, or allowing body sensations to exist without responding to them. ERP teaches the brain that you can tolerate discomfort and that you do not need to organize your life around shrinking your body in order to survive. Over time, fear often decreases, and life becomes larger than weight. ACT Skills for Weight Gain Anxiety and Body Image Fear Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) complements ERP by helping you change your relationship with fear rather than trying to eliminate it. ACT teaches that struggling against fear often keeps it in charge. Making space for uncomfortable thoughts allows them to come and go. Noticing the thought, “I need to lose weight to be okay” and responding with, “I’m having the thought that I need to lose weight to be okay” creates distance. Acceptance does not mean approving of weight stigma or pretending it doesn’t exist. It means acknowledging reality while still choosing how you want to live. You can recognize that weight stigma is real and still decide that you deserve a full life. The reality of life is that our bodies will all change over time. The more that we spend fighting this reality, the more that we suffer. Addressing The Underlying Issues Fear of weight gain is often not just about weight. In eating disorder therapy, it can be incredibly important to explore the underlying factors that make weight gain feel so threatening. For many people, this fear is tied to experiences of trauma, bullying, oppression, medical stigma, perfectionism, a need for control, or beliefs about safety, worth, or belonging. Shrinking their bodies may have functioned as a way to cope with anxiety, numb emotions, or protect against rejection in a world that can be unkind to larger bodies. A HAES-aligned therapeutic approach helps uncover these deeper layers so recovery is not just about changing eating behaviors, but about building new ways to feel safe, regulated, and valued without relying on a focus on weight loss. As these underlying issues are addressed, many people find that fear of weight gain naturally lessens. Another practice that can be helpful when fear of weight gain feels overwhelming is the RAIN practice, developed by psychologist and meditation teacher Tara Brach. RAIN stands for Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. When fear arises, the first step is recognizing what is happening in the moment, naming it as fear, anxiety, or shame rather than truth. Allowing means letting the feeling be present without trying to push it away or fix it. Investigation involves gently exploring what the fear is really asking for: safety, control, reassurance, or care. Finally, nurturing yourself means responding with compassion, perhaps offering yourself kind words, grounding touch, or reminding yourself that you are allowed to take up space and be cared for. Over time, practicing RAIN can help reduce reactivity to body-related fears and build a more compassionate relationship with yourself, even in moments of discomfort. Pursuing Values Instead Of Shrinking Your Body Fear of weight gain often pulls attention toward short-term relief through restriction or a (false) sense of control. ACT emphasizes values as a way to step out of this cycle. Values might include connection, creativity, parenting, family, advocacy, rest, or joy. When you choose recovery-aligned actions in service of your values, you are choosing life over body control. Many people discover that the more they invest in living fully, the less mental space weight occupies. Fear softens not because the world becomes perfectly accepting, but because your life becomes bigger than your body. You might also reflect on who your role models are in life. Are you drawn to them because they spend their time shrinking their body, monitoring their weight, or trying to stay thin at all costs? Or are they your role models because of how they show up in the world, how they love, create, lead, advocate, or care for others? For most of us, the people we admire are remembered for their values, courage, humor, and impact, not the size of their body. This can be a powerful reminder that your worth and legacy are not determined by being thin, but by the life you build and the meaning you bring to it. Does Fear of Weight Gain Ever Go Away? This is one of the most common questions in eating disorder recovery. For many people, especially with consistent nourishment and support, fear of weight gain decreases significantly over time. Early in recovery, the fear can feel all-consuming. As your nervous system stabilizes and avoidance decreases through ERP, thoughts that once felt overwhelming often lose their intensity. Food decisions become more neutral. Body size becomes less central to daily life. Fear may still show up occasionally, especially for those in larger bodies in a weight-stigmatizing world, but it no longer dictates how you live. For some, the fear may completely go away and they find they are able to focus on more meaningful things. Redefining Progress in Eating Disorder Recovery From a HAES-aligned, DBT, ACT, and ERP-informed perspective, progress in eating disorder recovery looks like eating despite fear, resisting safety behaviors, and choosing values over body control. You deserve a full, meaningful life that is not spent trying to shrink yourself. Recovery is not about making ‘your body acceptable to the world.’ It is about reclaiming your time, energy, and humanity, without spending the rest of your life trying to shrink your body. Schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation to explore how eating disorder therapy or recovery coaching can help you to find freedom. 🌟 Available in MD, VA, DC, PA, FL, and CA for eating disorder therapy 🌍 Offering recovery coaching worldwide  Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C (she/her), is an award-winning eating disorder therapist and the founder of The Eating Disorder Center, a specialized therapy practice for eating disorders and body image concerns. Jennifer uses ACT, CBT, and DBT to help clients find freedom from eating disorders and body image struggles. Jennifer is recognized as a leading eating disorder expert and was named one of the top professionals in the field by a premier treatment center. She is the recipient of the Best of Bethesda Award for Best Individual Therapist (2025) and the Best of Rockville Award (2020–2024). She helps clients to live full, meaningful lives, beyond food and body image concerns. The Eating Disorder Center is a premier outpatient eating disorder therapy center founded by Jennifer Rollin. We specialize in helping children, teens, and adults struggling with anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, OSFED, and body image issues. We provide eating disorder therapy in Rockville, MD, easily accessible to individuals in Potomac, North Potomac, Bethesda, Olney, Silver Spring, Germantown, and Washington, D.C. We also provide eating disorder therapy in Arlington, Virginia and virtually throughout Virginia. Additionally, we offer eating disorder therapy virtually in Florida, Pennsylvania, and California. We provide eating disorder and EMDR trauma therapy in Rockville, Maryland and virtually throughout Maryland and Virginia. We provide eating disorder recovery coaching via Zoom to people worldwide. Connect with us through our website at www.theeatingdisordercenter.com
By: Jennifer Rollin, LCSW-C, Therapist & Founder of The Eating Disorder Center  When people think about concussions, they often focus on the immediate physical symptoms: headaches, dizziness, fatigue, sensitivity to light, or difficulty concentrating. What is discussed far less often is how concussions can affect an athlete’s mental health and, in some cases, their relationship with food and their body. At The Eating Disorder Center, we work with adolescent and adult athletes across Rockville, Bethesda, Potomac, Chevy Chase, North Bethesda, Gaithersburg, and throughout Maryland, as well as Arlington, McLean, Alexandria, Vienna, and other communities in Virginia. Additionally, we provide therapy in Washington, D.C., Pennsylvania, Florida, and California. We also offer recovery coaching worldwide. Many of the athletes we see are high-achieving, driven, and deeply invested in their sport. When a concussion disrupts that identity, the emotional and behavioral fallout can be significant. Concussions and Mental Health in Athletes Research consistently shows that concussions increase the risk of mental health concerns such as depression, anxiety, irritability, emotional dysregulation, and changes in impulse control. For athletes, these challenges are often compounded by sudden removal from training, competition, and the structure that sports provide. An athlete who is benched due to a concussion may experience:
How Concussions Can Affect an Athlete’s Relationship With Food Concussions do not directly cause eating disorders, but they can create conditions that increase vulnerability. We commonly see several pathways: Loss of control. Athletes often thrive on routine. Restricting food, controlling intake, or obsessing over “clean” eating can provide a false sense of control during an uncertain time. Fear of weight changes. Reduced activity can trigger intense anxiety about weight gain, body composition, or performance. This is especially common in sports that emphasize leanness, aesthetics, or weight classes. Mood changes and appetite disruption. Concussions can alter appetite, hunger cues, and interoceptive awareness. Some athletes may lose their appetite entirely. Perfectionism and pressure to return. High-performing athletes may push themselves to “optimize” recovery through rigid food rules or supplements, believing that eating less or eating “perfectly” will speed healing. Over time, these patterns can develop into clinically significant disordered eating or full eating disorders if left unaddressed. Why Early Intervention Matters Athletes are often praised for toughness and resilience, which can make it harder to acknowledge emotional struggles. Many families and coaches focus exclusively on physical clearance after a concussion, without recognizing the psychological recovery that also needs attention. At The Eating Disorder Center, we take a whole-person approach. We look at how brain injury, identity disruption, performance pressure, and emotional health intersect with food and body image. Early support can help prevent long-term struggles and allow athletes to return to sport with healthier coping strategies. Specialized Support at The Eating Disorder Center Our clinicians specialize in treating eating disorders, disordered eating, anxiety, trauma, and mood concerns in athletes and high-achieving individuals. We work closely with adolescents, young adults, and adults throughout Maryland and Virginia, including families in Bethesda, Potomac, Chevy Chase, McLean, Arlington, and Alexandria. Treatment may include:
We understand the culture of competitive sports and the unique pressures athletes face. Our goal is not just symptom reduction, but helping athletes rebuild trust in their bodies and develop a sustainable, healthy relationship with food. When to Reach Out If you are a parent, coach, or athlete noticing increased food restriction, body checking, anxiety around eating, mood changes, or rigid control behaviors following a concussion, it is worth seeking support. These signs are not a failure of resilience; they are a signal that the athlete needs care. The Eating Disorder Center offers therapy for athletes across Rockville and the greater Montgomery County area, as well as throughout Virginia and beyond via telehealth in Washington, D.C., Pennsylvania, Florida, and California. Concussions affect more than the brain. They can quietly reshape how athletes see themselves, their bodies, and food. With the right support, recovery can include not only a return to sport, but a stronger foundation for long-term mental health. Schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation to explore how eating disorder therapy or recovery coaching can help you to find freedom. 🌟 Available in MD, VA, DC, PA, FL, and CA for eating disorder therapy 🌍 Offering recovery coaching worldwide  Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C (she/her), is an award-winning eating disorder therapist and the founder of The Eating Disorder Center, a specialized therapy practice for eating disorders and body image concerns. Jennifer uses ACT, CBT, and DBT to help clients find freedom from eating disorders and body image struggles. Jennifer is recognized as a leading eating disorder expert and was named one of the top professionals in the field by a premier treatment center. She is the recipient of the Best of Bethesda Award for Best Individual Therapist (2025) and the Best of Rockville Award (2020–2024). She helps clients to live full, meaningful lives, beyond food and body image concerns. The Eating Disorder Center is a premier outpatient eating disorder therapy center founded by Jennifer Rollin. We specialize in helping children, teens, and adults struggling with anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, OSFED, and body image issues. We provide eating disorder therapy in Rockville, MD, easily accessible to individuals in Potomac, North Potomac, Bethesda, Olney, Silver Spring, Germantown, and Washington, D.C. We also provide eating disorder therapy in Arlington, Virginia and virtually throughout Virginia. Additionally, we offer eating disorder therapy virtually in Florida, Pennsylvania, and California. We provide eating disorder and EMDR trauma therapy in Rockville, Maryland and virtually throughout Maryland and Virginia. We provide eating disorder recovery coaching via Zoom to people worldwide. Connect with us through our website at www.theeatingdisordercenter.com
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