A Free Meditation For Compulsive Exercise by Eating Disorder Therapist, Jennifer Rollin, LCSW-C10/7/2024
 What is compulsive exercise? We live in an exercise-focused world, so our relationship with movement can be complicated. Some people who struggle with compulsive exercising may also struggle with obsessive compulsive disorder, disordered eating or an eating disorder. It can be difficult for people who are struggling with compulsive exercise to stop the cycle of exercising, as exercise may have been used as a way for someone to meet their needs (i.e. being able to manage the feeling of loneliness or anxiety). Living trapped by compulsive exercise is exhausting. It’s a tiring cycle that can feel really difficult to break out of on your own. Also exercising can be so praised in our society that it might be hard for others (or yourself) to recognize that you have a problem. At The Eating Disorder Center we are highly skilled in providing therapy for individuals who are struggling with compulsive exercise. We will work as part of a treatment team to help you to recover from compulsive exercise, which may include a physician, dietitian, and/or psychiatrist. We use evidence-based treatment methods, including acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) skills, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and modified FBT treatment. We are Health At Every Size (HAES) informed providers. We help individuals who are struggling with compulsive exercise to challenge exercise rules and heal their relationship to movement. If there is co-occurring trauma we also offer EMDR therapy for trauma and eating disorders. We pride ourselves on being action-oriented therapists, setting recovery goals, and doing exposures with clients, such as eating meals or snacks together. We value collaboration with other local eating disorder treatment providers. Many of our therapists are also personally recovered from eating disorders. Our founder at The Eating Disorder Center, and an eating disorder therapist in Rockville, Maryland Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C created a free meditation for compulsive exercise. Here is the video for the meditation: The purpose of this meditation is to help folks struggling with compulsions or negative thoughts around exercise or movement. The meditation discusses that sometimes when we challenge the eating disorder, the eating disorder voice can get louder and it can be more difficult to tolerate big feelings around it. Know that this is normal and expected during the recovery process. Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C discusses taking a break from exercise as feeling as if you are “crawling out of your skin.” She then explains that the more you are able to ride out these eating disorder urges, the easier it will get over time. Compulsive exercise may feel like it's bringing the anxiety down in the short term, but in the long term it is keeping you stuck in this exhausting cycle. And that is no way to live the rest of your life. You don’t have to feel trapped anymore. Are you looking for support with compulsive exercise? The Eating Disorder Center is here to help! We provide therapy in-person in Rockville, MD and virtually in MD, VA, DC, FL, and NY. We also offer recovery coaching worldwide. Not sure where to start? Reach out to us for a free 15-minute consultation by filling out our contact form or give us a call at 301-246-6856! Schedule a free 15 min consult for eating disorder therapy in MD, VA, DC, NY, FL, or recovery coaching worldwide. Click here. The Eating Disorder Center is a premier outpatient eating disorder therapy center founded by Jennifer Rollin. We specialize in helping teens and adults struggling with anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, OSFED, and body image issues. We provide eating disorder therapy in Rockville, MD, easily accessible to individuals in Potomac, North Potomac, Bethesda, Olney, Silver Spring, Germantown, and Washington D.C. We also provide eating disorder therapy in Arlington, Virginia and virtually throughout Virginia. Additionally, we offer eating disorder therapy virtually in New York (NYC), Florida, and California. We provide eating disorder and EMDR trauma therapy in Rockville, Maryland and virtually throughout Maryland. We provide eating disorder recovery coaching via Zoom to people worldwide. Connect with us through our website at www.theeatingdisordercenter.com
By Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C  She has just finished dinner when the urges begin. It feels like the food in the pantry is calling to her. All she can think about is the package of Oreos, the peanut butter and bread, and the chips. She wants nothing more than to get lost in the cycle of eating. To numb out and to feel that initial pleasure as she washes down a package of Oreos with gallon of milk. But part of her doesn’t want to do this again. She wants nothing more than to be able to stop this terrible cycle. It's so exhausting. And she's always filled with shame and guilt after a binge. Yet, she doesn’t know how to cope with these intense urges. The following are a few of my tips for what to do when you feel urges to binge eat. The PAUSE Skill I developed a skill that people can use, which is called The PAUSE Skill. 1. Pause. Take a moment to pause at the first sign of when you feel the urge coming on. and then take a deep breath. Tell yourself that if you still want to binge after using this skill, you can-but first you are going to try this practice. 2. Allow space. Remove yourself from the kitchen (or whatever environment is triggering the urge, if you can) and go somewhere where you can sit down. Tell yourself that you are not trying to stop the binge, rather you are just practicing delaying action for right now. Ask yourself if you are feeling physically hungry. If so, choose to sit down and to eat something mindfully (ask yourself what taste, temperature, and texture of food you are craving and try to find a good match). If you are not physically hungry, continue with the rest of the skill. 3. Use other coping strategies and coping statements. Figure out what works best for you. Trying to process your emotions in the moment, might not be your best course of action (this would likely be better served at a time when you are not highly triggered to want to binge i.e maybe in therapy or in the morning). When urges are intense, I recommend choosing 5-10 distraction coping strategies that you can do for at least 10 minutes each. You can also tell yourself some coping statements. Here are a few that I particularly like:
4. Separate your “eating disorder self,” thoughts, and urges. Start to notice the things that your “eating disorder self” is telling you and then practice responding from “your true self.” Your “eating disorder self” will always come up with reasons for you to binge eat. Think about what you would tell a friend in a similar situation. Remind yourself that just because you have an urge does not mean that you need to act on it. With practice, you can learn how to sit with and ride out the urges that you experience. Urges typically will naturally diminish on their own. Remind yourself of how you usually feel after a binge episode. Bingeing gives a temporary high or feeling of “comfort” or respite from long-term distress and unhappiness. Typically, people feel physically and mentally terrible after a binge episode. 5. Enlist help from a supportive person. Practice reaching out to supportive people instead of turning towards your eating disorder, even if it’s just to talk to someone as a means of distraction. Reaching out for support can bring your “true self” to the forefront. It’s also so important to practice being kind to yourself. Recognize that you are using bingeing either as a response to physical or emotional deprivation (i.e., you aren’t eating enough throughout the day, you are eating things yet feeling guilty about them, or you are avoiding certain foods), and/or to cope with uncomfortable or unpleasant emotions. You can also remind yourself that you are not saying that you must give up bingeing forever. You can always go back to it. However, try to take it one day (even one moment) at a time. What if you tried something different this time? Recovery Is Possible If you do end up bingeing after taking these steps, it’s important to be compassionate with yourself. You are not alone in struggling with this and you are not simply “lacking willpower.” You are struggling with something that no one would choose. It’s also important that you don’t do anything to try to “compensate” for the binge, as this will only keep the binge/restrict cycle going. Additionally, bingeing is often a resilient response to emotional distress, past trauma, and feelings of low self-worth. You are trying to 'help yourself,' and it might even feel helpful in the short term, however in the long-term bingeing is likely not serving you. If you could ride out the urge even for a little bit, this shows that you were practicing an important skill and with time (and additional support) you can learn how to ride out the urge completely. If you have outlasted the urge to binge completely, take a moment to recognize and acknowledge this. Ultimately, you deserve a meaningful and joyful life. No matter what you may be telling yourself, finding freedom from bingeing is possible. I’ve worked with many people who were able to fully recover from their eating disorders. Full recovery is completely possible. Yes, for you too. Want help for binge eating? Book your free 15 minute consult for therapy or coaching. Sign up for my training on Finding Freedom From Binge Eating. The Eating Disorder Center is a premier outpatient eating disorder therapy center founded by Jennifer Rollin. We specialize in helping teens and adults struggling with anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, OSFED, and body image issues. We also offer therapy for obsessive compulsive disorder. We provide eating disorder therapy in Rockville, MD, easily accessible to individuals in Potomac, North Potomac, Bethesda, Olney, Silver Spring, Germantown, and Washington D.C. We provide eating disorder recovery coaching via Zoom to people worldwide. Connect with us through our website at www.theeatingdisordercenter.com |
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