Why Eating Disorders Often Go Unrecognized in College Students

By: Danielle Goury
Reviewed by: Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-C

College comes with a lot of change. Classes are harder, schedules are busier, and for many students, it’s the first time they’re fully responsible for their own routines and choices. All of that change can make it surprisingly easy for eating disorders to form, and also go unnoticed. 

Many disordered eating behaviors are normalized on college campuses. Because they often look like “typical” student stress or are misviewed as “discipline,” students may not realize that what they are experiencing goes beyond normal adjustment and into something that may actually be taking a toll on their well-being. 


Why Eating Disorders Are Easy to Miss in College

On many campuses, skipping meals can unfortunately become normalized and not viewed as disordered. Students rush from class to work to clubs, and some end up relying on caffeine in the morning or even alcohol at night rather than eating full meals. These patterns are often brushed off as “just college life,” even when they’re happening regularly. To be clear, this is disordered behavior and may even be a sign of an eating disorder. 

Exercise culture can also play a role here. Feeling guilty for missing a workout, pushing through exhaustion, or treating the gym as non-negotiable is often normalized and praised as a sign of motivation or “discipline.” When everyone around you is doing something similar, it becomes harder to tell when behaviors are no longer positive or healthy. 

Comparison can make this even harder. Thoughts about food, weight, and exercise can start feeling competitive, especially when it seems like everyone around you is trying to outdo one another in terms of dieting or gym routines. When these behaviors are shared or normalized within a group, they can be misperceived as “less concerning” – even if they’re causing real distress for the people experiencing them. 


The Role of the "Freshman 15” Stigma

The idea of the “Freshman 15” is deeply ingrained in college culture. For many students, fear of this weight gain starts before college even begins. This pressure can lead to restrictive eating, rigid gym schedules, constant monitoring of food and body changes, and feeling compelled to prevent weight gain at all costs.

However, people often forget that college-aged bodies are still changing. Late adolescence and early adulthood are naturally periods of physical development and transition. Many students also experience major shifts in their activity levels during this time, especially if they played sports in high school and no longer do so in college. Expecting bodies to stay exactly the same during this transition is generally unrealistic and unhealthy. 


Warning Signs That Often Get Overlooked

Eating disorders don’t always look obvious, especially in college settings. Some warning signs are subtle and easy to dismiss, such as: 

• Rigid routines around food or exercise 
• Guilt or shame after eating 
• Anxiety or panic around dining halls or meal plans
• Feeling distressed when plans involving food or movement change
• Exercising out of obligation rather than enjoyment
• Thoughts about food, weight, or exercise taking up a significant amount of mental space

These patterns don’t have to be extreme to be concerning. How much stress these behaviors cause, how rigid or intense they feel, and how much mental space they take up can matter more than what someone looks like on the outside.


Why Students May Not Seek Help


Many college students don’t reach out for help because they don’t think they “need” it. Others may worry that their behaviors aren’t sustainable but want to avoid confronting that reality as long as possible. When disordered eating feels normalized by peers or the campus culture, it can be easy to convince yourself that help isn’t necessary – or that others need it more than you do.

There is also a fear of not being taken seriously, especially for someone who doesn’t necessarily fit the common eating disorder stereotypes. All of this can make it harder to reach out, even when someone is struggling internally. 


How to Get Help

You don’t need to be in crisis or have a diagnosis to receive support. Reaching out earlier rather than later can make a real difference. Good starting points include talking with trusted family members and seeking an evaluation from an eating disorder therapist. For students concerned about a loved one or a friend, approaching the conversation with care and curiosity is important for keeping the door into this topic open. 

Asking for help is not a sign of failure; it’s a response to noticing that something doesn’t feel right. 


Takeaway

Eating disorders often go unrecognized in college because so many of the behaviors are normalized, praised, or explained away as stress or “normal college behavior.” 
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Danielle Goury (she/her) is a guest blog writer at The Eating Disorder Center, a specialized therapy practice for eating disorders, body image concerns, as well as co-occurring OCD and trauma. The Eating Disorder Center provides eating disorder therapy for children, teens, and adults in Rockville, Maryland, and nearby areas including Bethesda, Potomac, Gaithersburg, and Olney, as well as virtual therapy across Maryland, Virginia, Pennsylvania, Washington, D.C., Florida, and California.

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The Eating Disorder Center is a premier outpatient eating disorder therapy center founded by Jennifer Rollin. We specialize in helping children, teens, and adults struggling with anorexia, binge eating disorder, bulimia, OSFED, and body image issues. We provide eating disorder therapy in Rockville, MD, easily accessible to individuals in Potomac, North Potomac, Bethesda, Olney, Silver Spring, Germantown, and Washington, D.C. We also provide eating disorder therapy in Arlington, Virginia and virtually throughout Virginia. Additionally, we offer eating disorder therapy virtually in Florida, Pennsylvania, and California. We provide eating disorder and EMDR trauma therapy in Rockville, Maryland and virtually throughout Maryland and Virginia. We provide eating disorder recovery coaching via Zoom to people worldwide. Connect with us through our website at www.theeatingdisordercenter.com